Back to Work

Tuesday and Wednesday this week I ventured back to work for 2 days.  I had promised my students in 10th grade that I would show up for their 10th grade math MCAS if at all possible.  Thanks to Jeremy and cousin Laura I was able to keep that promise. (THANK YOU BOTH!!)

It was tough getting out of the house on Tuesday morning, but knowing that this was only a 2 day lark, rather than going back to work permanently made it a lot easier.  It was awesome to be there for the students and I was happy I did it.  The age of iPhones also made it easier as I got a few photo updates and a FaceTime visit with Oliver during the day as well.

Laura took this picture of Oliver that now occupies my home screen on my phone.

How cute is that?

 

Note: Despite the appearance of the pic, he does have hair and it is brown.

Quote…

This is a little more mushy than my usual posts, but my friend Amanda from HMS had this posted on her blog and it made me tear up immediately, so I have to share:

From the Inside

Here’s a link to her blog post, if you want to find out more.

Other adventures…

Being a stay-at-home mom for a while has left me free to have other random adventures. Today I helped add “accomplice to breaking & entering” to the list of activities Oliver can claim to have done in the first few weeks of his life.
To protect the innocent I won’t name names or post details, but feel free to ask us about our Friday morning adventure!
And what better way to celebrate his first B&E? Hot chocolate & an asparagus & pecorino croissant from Canto 6!

Anonymous Gift

The other day we received an anonymous gift in the mail.

 

This t-shirt is really cute and was sent from a company named “Zazzle” and a blank gift tag.

Anyone want to claim credit?  We’d love to give you credit and a thank you note!

Anyone?

Bueller?

Update: It was from Gunnar.  Thank  you, Gunnar!

Gratuitous Naked Baby Picture (g-rated)

Everyone needs a gratuitous naked baby picture to pull out to embarrass your child and to show prospective dates who come a callin’.  Here is ours:

It's sponge bath time!

 

What could be cuter?

 

Learning Curves – On Baby Wearing

When people join the military or even med school they are put through training that prepares them to do a multitude of stressful & complex tasks without benefit of sleep.  Parenting pretty much throws you in without any training – although moms who have made it to 9 months pregnant (Or more. 40 weeks = 10 months) aren’t getting as much sleep as they once were, it’s a whole new ball game when the baby arrives.  Despite all the sleep deprivation, you are going to be learning a whole slew of new skills in the crash course of all crash courses – parenting.

In the next few posts I will be writing about some of the new skills I have acquired in the last few weeks.  Hopefully Jeremy will pipe in as well as he is a champ in some of these new activities.

First up on the learning curve list: baby wearing.

Before Oliver was born Jeremy was adamant that he would not be using a stroller for our son (and thus far he has only done so once, and that was mostly for my benefit), stating he would prefer to carry or wear Oliver.  This being the case it made sense for him choose the type of baby carrier we would buy for our little guy.  Jeremy tried on a variety of carriers on our trips to Isis in order to figure out which he would prefer and finally settled on the Ergo (THANK YOU to Kathleen & Mary!).  Unfortunately when you are pregnant it’s a bit tough to try on baby carriers as your body isn’t shaped the way it will be once the baby is born.  For those of you who are pregnant, you may want to wait to choose your carrier or at least get one where you can return it in case you end up not liking your original choice.  The Ergo came highly rated and Jeremy used it within days of bringing Oliver home.  Hopefully Jeremy will write up what he likes about the carrier as he as been the primary user thus far.  Here’s why: In order to use the Ergo with an infant you need a special insert (THANK YOU Beth!) to accommodate babies who cannot yet support their heads and sit with their legs spread apart. This insert has been awesome for Jeremy, allowing him to carry Oliver while we are out and about.  Despite the benefit of early baby carrying, the insert has been a bit of a problem for me, as I am short and short-waisted.  When Oliver is in the Ergo with the insert I have a hard time seeing over his head as it places him at chin height and about 6 inches out from my chest.  I have no doubt that when the insert is no longer needed, I will love the Ergo particularly the built in sun-cover, zipper pockets where we have an extra diaper & the clipped on hand sanitizer (which comes in quite handy at the dog park). So in the mean time, what’s a short mommy to do when she wants to walk with her kid and have hands-free?

While I wait for Oliver to get a little bigger (not too quickly, though!) I have been using a Moby baby wrap.  Our friend Lesley lent me hers one day when we were going for a walk and we forgot the Ergo.  Immediately I knew it was the answer to my problem.  I love that Oliver is lower and closer to my chest.  I use it in the house when I want to get things done and Oliver just wants to be held.  It’s kind of like being pregnant again, but a little higher up and I can take him off any time I want!  The Moby also folds up smaller than the Ergo and the insert so I can stash it in the diaper bag.  (Note:Without the insert they pack differently, but closer in size.)  The downside of the Moby is the learning curve on how to wrap it.  Luckily there are dozens of videos on the Moby site and on YouTube explaining various ways to wrap your little one in a Moby.  I think another downside is I purchased a black Moby (as it was the only one available at Target & I was too impatient to wait for an online order) and it will be quite hot in the summer.  I have found a few blog entries on how to make your own from a variety of fabrics so I may try to do that when I finally get some free time. Ha!

I will try to get some pictures of Oliver in both types of carrier, so check back soon for an updated version of this post!

Kate

Update 2/4/2013: I love our Ergo now.  Once Oliver hit about 5 or 6 months he hit a size that was convenient for me in the Ergo.  My height just made it tough with the infant insert.

I’m just curious…

What is my 6 week old doing that he has dirt under his fingernails?  How can fingernails that small even have room for dirt underneath them?

Kate

Our Handsome Man

In an earlier post I blogged about a shirt that my students bought for Oliver.  Here he is looking quite handsome.

Do I look ready for work? Or perhaps dressed for game day at HMS?

 

Here is another.  Oliver looks ready to defend his honor in this one.

Don't you dare make fun of my button-down shirt!

Once again, thanks to Ricky, Emmanuel and all the students who contributed to the shirt fund.  Oliver looks great!

Date Night

Grandpa Ron & Grandma Nancy came to Boston and have sent us out on a date night. (thank you!!) I’m in the car with Jeremy on the way to Ten Tables, but part of my heart is back in the condo…

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Things Come Full Circle

Five weeks ago I wrote about the death of my grandmother, Marie.  She was born in 1923 and missed the birth of her first great-grandchild by a mere 20 days.  Oliver will never meet Marie, although even if she had lived to see him born he wouldn’t have been able to see the fiery woman she had been.

Last week Oliver received an amazing gift from a friend of the family, Laurie.  Laurie shares my grandmother’s love of quilting and was the recipient of my grandmother’s quilting supplies after she could no longer live on her own.  When Oliver’s impending birth was announced Laurie set about using quilt circles my grandmother had made and pieced them into a full quilt for Oliver.  I only have a small picture of one completed square right now, but once I have a day with good lighting and someone to hold the quilt for me, I’ll include a picture of the whole thing and a close up of the alphabet fabric in the center.  In the mean time, it’s amazing that Oliver could receive a gift that was (in part) hand-made by his great-grandmother.  Laurie’s thoughtfulness and skill have produced an amazing quilt that we will treasure always.  I look forward to the time when Oliver is old enough to understand the significance of this quilt.

Laurie, thank you does not begin to express my gratitude for this gift… but for lack of more fitting words, THANK YOU!

Oliver's quilt, by Marie and Laurie.

 

Below is the letter that Laurie wrote to accompany the quilt.  *Note: Last names have been purposely omitted.

Dear Kate,

I would have preferred to hand write this letter, but my arthritis would never allow it.  I wanted you to know the history of this quilt.  I hope that someday Oliver might pass it on to his first born.

It seems that your paternal grandmother, Marie, was a quilter.  When your dad, Alan, moved your grandmother to the nursing facility he discovered a collection of quilting “stuff”.  Your dad knew that I was a quilter and he called asking if I would take the collection of quilting supplies and do with it as I see fit.  I agreed, and he was grateful. I looked through your grandmother’s “stuff” and discovered two unfinished quilts.  One was a muslin quilt with butterflies on it and the other was the quilt top I reworked for Oliver.  When your dad told us that you were expecting, I went to find the quilts to see what could be done and I hoped that you would have a boy because the blue quilt top would be easiest to finish, or so I thought.

Everything your grandmother sewed was by hand. That was pretty typical in the 1970’s.  That is when I estimate that the quilt was begun.  The pattern she used is called Dresden Plate. It is usually round without the four points seen on this quilt.  It appears that she altered the design to her liking.  The plate section was constructed first and then it was appliquéd to the muslin (white) background. When I took possession of the quilt, it was a little larger than it is now because the muslin blocks were quite oversized.  To break up the large white space, she had appliquéd a shape that looked something like a starfish or a petal flower, I really wasn’t sure, where the four corners of the muslin meet. The center of the Dresden Plate was the same solid blue fabric that she used for the four pointed sections.  She used that solid blue fabric for the starfish appliqué.  So that it where I began my journey of Oliver’s quilt.

I saw potential in the quilt.  I took it to my favorite quilt store in my area and they told me to leave it alone, quilt if for what it is and be done.  I thought it needed to be reworked and brought up to date, modernized.  So, this is what I did.  I removed the center circles and replaced them with the subtle alphabet pattern knowing that It would bring some life to the plate and that it would be used again as a border.  I cut apart the blocks and used a zigzag machine appliqué stitch all around the outside of the plate.  Your grandmother’s hand stitches are still under there, but I was concerned that they wouldn’t stand the test of time without some extra support.  I knew I wanted to break up the muslin and the best way to do that was to add sashing in between the blocks.  The batik fabric I found for the sashing was the prefect choice to modernize and coordinate the blues and whites. I had to cut down the size of the block many times before I was satisfied that the design was balanced.  I sewed the pieces together and finally the quilt top was finished.

Now for the part that is actually called quilting, all of the previous work is called piecing.  Quilting can take a very long time, most people are very unaware of the hours spent.  People frequently ask me, “How long did it take you to make that quilt?”  I never have an answer because I never time myself.  It’s like anything that you do that you really enjoy, you just do it with joy!  So, if you look at the back of the quilt and notice the pattern of stitching, that is what is called quilting.  You will notice that there is an odd, interesting pattern of stitching through the Dresden Plates.  Again, I was concerned about the stability of the stitches connecting the pieces of the plates so I stitched through the seams of the pieces.  I wanted to break up the expanse of white with what is called freemotion quilting.  I am pleased with the results and I think that your grandmother would be as well.  Hopefully the quilting will ensure that the quilt will be well loved and used for many years.

Now the quilt passes from your grandmother’s hands, to mine, and now on to you and Oliver.  Many blessings to you and your family.

-Laurie